Sex tips and chat noobs

Every once in a while some of the adult blogs here point out something hot. I was reading the sex cams blog’s latest post about this girl who ranted about some sex tips for guys, and how this other gal was blown away that people really do kinky stuff online and off.

Well I have some tips for the newer people out there that are just starting to figure out sex with other people online. Just talk to people. Be mature, be courteous, be respectful, and be fun. It’s not hard to get to know people. I think the biggest mistake people make when trying to get action online is trying to get action right away.

When I first entered a sex chat room online I though that it was going to be a huge non stop sex orgy. I was wrong of course. The thing is people like to spend a good amount of time in good chat rooms, and people generally have sex on average about 12 minutes. Now if the average person is getting it on for 12 minutes, yet spending three hours in the free chat rooms, then it makes sense that people will do online what ends up happening offline as well.

People like to engage in some small talk afterwards, and most people want even more small talk before agreeing to fuck, even via cybersex online. Some people would think that talking would be a thing of the past with today’s lighting fast internet connections, live webcams, and sex sites galore. But the truth of the matter is, online is very similar to offline in many occasions. Sure there are plenty of guys who are ready to cyber fuck at the drop of a dime, but many of the women need some more to get them in the mood.

So spend a little time getting to know others, and give them a chance to get to know you. Even if the you they are getting to know is a strong, healthy guy with a couple of tattoos. Just don’t brag about how huge your cock is like the one girl said. Some girls are scared of a large cock (can be painful, especially if they are into anal sex), and if they are going to get into the fantasy world of believe you are muscular with a good tan and some tats, then you need to make the story believable. Advertising you have a 14 inch dick is most likely not the way to get them to believe the rest of your story.

Keep that in mind, and keep it fun. But also keep it safe out there.

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